Saturday, June 19, 2010
Burkina Faso
Tuesday, May 11, 2010
Not Goodbye! More like, 'See you Later!'
After living here for four months, and almost being on my way out, I thought I’d share what Ghana is to me. I’ve learned a lot (outside the classroom, of course) and this is what I have gathered. But despite what I love and dislike about Ghana, (trust me, there have been rough patches in our relationship, but we got through them!) it is all uniquely Ghana. It is the things that I can’t stand about Ghana that I’ve learned to adapt to, laugh off, and come to love. When my friends went to their 3.30 Dance Final and I heard that the professor didn’t show up until 4.30 and that only half of the class were actually able to perform because there wasn‘t enough time, and that no one was informed that not everyone would be going until they had already waited 5 hours, my roommate came home fuming, and all I could say was, “Wow, but don‘t you love Ghana!? Come on you gotta love it.” And we just laughed at the ridiculous inefficiency of this school, and at ourselves for ACTUALLY being surprised.
So what is Ghana?
-It’s a place where you can order 50 cents of food and you still have left-overs (this only applies to traditional Ghanaian cuisine of course!).
-It’s a place where you can’t plan anything because you don’t what’s going to happen.
-It’s a place where life moves so slowly that it even has a name for it: “Ghana time.” By the second day in this country, we were already well aware of this “Ghana time.” Orientation would require us to be on the bus at 7am, yet we would never leave before 8.30. What were we waiting for? We never knew. When a Ghanaian says see you in 30 minutes, it means 2 hours. My textile class was 12.30 to 4.30, yet after a few times of showing up on time I realized, why on earth was I on time when class never really got going before 1.30? So I started going at 1 and even then I’d be waiting for an hour before I did anything!
-Efficiency. A word not analogous with Ghana culture. The way things are set up just don’t make sense and it’s the little things. Papers not being alphabetized when you need to search for a certain one in particular. Being required in my textile class to wash all the bowls and scrub the floors when we are about to start using everything again to dye our fabric. Or the Final Exam schedule in which your Final times are not organized by the time of your lecture (ie. All Tuesday classes at 12.30-2 have the same final exam time as to avoid Final conflicts), but instead are organized semi-randomly.
-It’s a place where the customer is not always right. It’s a place where if you find a bug (or two!) in your food, there is no returning it and getting a complimentary replacement. No, instead the question becomes, ’How much do I want this?’ From my experiences, we all just pick it out, shrug it off, and continue our meal. Why? Because the workers will do nothing for you. They don’t care, unless you want to buy another. So we adapt and deal with it.
-It’s a place where running water is infrequent, power is erratic, and heated water is practically non-existent. When I leave campus, I assume there won’t be running water or power unless proven differently, and heated water? Not even a concept worth considering!
-It’s a place where if you walk any faster than a saunter Ghanaians look at you and ask “Obruni, what’s the hurry?!” I attribute the slow and relaxed atmosphere to the heavy heat. It’s just too hot to care, or to move that quickly. And really, what’s the hurry? With Ghanaian Time, nothing is ever on time, so you might as well enjoy what’s around you!
-It’s a place where you can buy anything on the street. ANYTHING. The second day here, one of my orientation guides told us, “You can buy anything in traffic.” What did he mean? Well I didn’t fully understand until being here for some time. Items that can be purchased from someone’s head on the street? Food: Plantains, oranges, bread, yoghurt, doughnuts, cooked rice, meat pie. Clothing: bras, underwear, international jerseys, cowboy hats, shoes. And other sundries: weight scales, toothbrushes, DVDs, toilet paper, pillows, lanterns, and world maps.
-It’s a place where you’re physically never dry. You’re perpetually sweating, and then you shower to cool off, but you never really dry because you’re sweating the moment you put on your clothes. You’re even sweating when it rains because it is still 80 degrees but now with the added bonus of 100% humidity. You are all always damp. So never forget your sweat rag!
-It’s a place with glorious beaches. Forget Mexico and the Bahamas, Ghana is the place with the beaches, and CHEAP because it’s not a touristy place. It’s a secret from the world that you only find out once you’ve formed an intimate relationship with the country. My roommate and I ran away to the beaches every chance we got!
-It’s a culture that loves dancing. Dancing is the way into any Ghanaian’s heart. I love going to bars, which is mainly a man’s place because women don’t (usually) drink, and seeing men just stand up at their table and just move to the music that is playing. They don’t need anyone to dance with to make it “ok” to dance. They just go at it, and most of the time it’s with their male friends they are with. They just get up and dance. No hesitation. No thinking. Just moving. It’s beautiful.
-It’s a place that loves foreigners. Children see you passing, conspicuously stare at your different appearance, and yell “Obruni, Obruni!” We wave back and say “Hi!” and they giggle and suddenly turn bashful. There are other children however, that are not so sweet and come up to you and pull on your arm, tacitly asking for money. You literally just have to shake them off and hasten your pace.
-It’s a place where you shower regularly with mosquitoes, ants, palm-sized moths, other flying insects, and on the occasion roaches. It’s come to the point that the 4 times (yes I’ve counted!) that I’ve showered without my companions, I felt alone! What’s a shower without the regular mosquito and/ or moth attack? I can’t remember!
-Ghanaians really like giving foreigners a good impression of their country. People always ask “How are you finding Ghana?” or “Where are you going?” or “Can I help you?” And when I first got here, I would ignore them, assuming all they wanted was my money in return for their “help,” but after being here I realized they actually did want to help and they weren’t asking for money. On many occasions I’ve been lost at a tro-tro station, looking for the right tro-tro amongst the crowds of people selling, traveling, and buying, and I’ve had men walk me from one end of a tro-tro station to the other, or on some occasions walked me to the next station to get me to the vehicle I needed. And what did they do once we found our ride? Barely said goodbye and walked away. Nothing. They just help us out because we’re lost foreigners. And because of this, Ghana is the friendliest and most welcoming country I’ve been to. If you plan to come to Africa, start in Ghana. It’s a good place to get your groundings before you move on in this continent…
I could stay in Ghana another month (or three haha!) without hesitation; I’m comfortable here, I have friends here, and it’s always a perk to be legal, but I’m ok leaving now because I know I’ll be back. I’ve had my time in Ghana in which I‘ve become quite well acquainted, but it’s now time to explore West Africa. I leave May 15 for 16 days hitting Burkina Faso, Mali, The Gambia, and Senegal. On June 2, Stacy and I fly from Dakar to Cape Town, where we will spend a month (WORLD CUP!). On July 1, we both leave South Africa, but separating from each other: Stacy flies to India for 2 weeks and I’ll go to England.
So I guess Part I of our adventure is coming to an end, but we have so much more to go! Every day we will be doing something different, so these next 2 months will be the fastest of my life!
Take care, and I don’t know when the next post will be! Maybe SA, after we’re done backpacking? We’ll see!
-Annabelle
2. Me and Regina outside St. Paul's Cathedral in Abidjan
Back to Bankass.
Bankass to Mopti (I write to you from Mopti now!)
Overnight bus to Bamako and then Bamako to Dakar!
That being said, I end with a disclaimer apologizing for brief Ghana update ( things got so hectic the last 2 weeks of school) and for the delay in update! This is the first time I've had internet in almost 3 weeks!
My next update will be of all the details of the backpacking adventure. I have so much to say and I want to tell you now, but there is no time! Stacy and I are great, we're loving this!
Talk to you all soon from SA
Au Revoire,
Annabelle
Monday, April 12, 2010
Travels to Cote d'Ivoire (Ivory Coast)
Surprisingly, I made it to Cote D’ivoire. I say “surprising” because it is notorious for its political instability, rebellions, and coup d’etats. Why did I choose to go there? I don’t really know. I suppose I heard that other people had gone and they had been ok so there was no reason for me NOT to go. And of course I was curious to see what this country was like despite all the instability. For context, here’s the rundown of the last 50 years in Cote d’Ivoire as briefed by the BBC:
"Once hailed as a model of stability, Ivory Coast has slipped into the kind of internal strife that has plagued many African countries.
An armed rebellion in 2002 split the nation in two. Since then, peace deals have alternated with renewed violence as the country has slowly edged its way towards a political resolution of the conflict. For more than three decades after independence under the leadership of its first president, Felix Houphouet-Boigny, Ivory Coast was conspicuous for its religious and ethnic harmony and its well-developed economy.
All this ended when the late Robert Guei led a coup which toppled Felix Houphouet-Boigny's successor, Henri Bedie, in 1999. Mr Bedie fled, but not before planting the seeds of ethnic discord by trying to stir up xenophobia against Muslim northerners, including his main rival, Alassane Ouattara.
This theme was also adopted by Mr Guei, who had Alassane Ouattara banned from the presidential election in 2000 because of his foreign parentage, and by the only serious contender allowed to run against Mr Guei, Laurent Gbagbo.
When Mr Gbagbo replaced Robert Guei after he was deposed in a popular uprising in 2000, violence replaced xenophobia. Scores of Mr Ouattara's supporters were killed after their leader called for new elections.
In September 2002 a troop mutiny escalated into a full-scale rebellion, voicing the ongoing discontent of northern Muslims who felt they were being discriminated against in Ivorian politics. Thousands were killed in the conflict.
Although the fighting has stopped, Ivory Coast is tense and divided. French and UN peacekeepers patrolled the buffer zone which separated the north, held by rebels known as the New Forces, and the government-controlled south.”
My trip was interesting for many different reasons; it was the first time I’ve left Ghana since I arrived, so it was interesting to see how another African country is, but it was also interesting to see the differences in legacy of an ex-French colony. What was my impression after 3 days? Cote d’Ivoire reinforces the clichés of French culture-- cigarettes, baguettes, and cheese, with an African twist. I didn’t do anything touristy in Cote d’Ivoire, so I don’t have much to share in that respect, but I lived like an Ivorian for 3 days and that was the experience. Here is my weekend:
Laurel (my roommate) and I get visas for Cote d’Ivoire, which was more expensive and difficult than we thought it would be, but in the end we got them! We needed to exchange money so we get in a taxi and tell the driver “take us to the airport. We need to exchange money.” The driver is very friendly and responds, “Yes, I will take you and I will drop you off where you get CFA (Ivorian currency). We’re driving and are almost at the airport when the driver points over to a grassy area with trees off the side of the road and says, “OK, you exchange your money here.” I respond, “What? Under that tree?!” (nervous laughter). “Yes, Yes” he says and he pulls over and 2 men run toward the car.
“How much money do you want!? How much!” Laurel and I nervously look at each other and I proceed to state the obvious, “Wow, sketchy. What the hell is going on?!” The taxi driver explains that he deals with these people all the time, they are legitimate, and he wants to give us a good rate. So after some time calculating and number crunching, we work out a good rate with the man outside our taxi window and exchange roughly $350 into CFA. Was I questioning the legitimacy of the exchange? The whole time. Was I being ripped off? I don’t think so. Were the CFA real? I hoped so. This was the beginning of our Ivorian adventure and it started on the street, exchanging more money than many Ghanaians see in a year from my taxi window, with a man who stations himself under a tree on a random street corner in Accra. Gotta love Africa!
I convinced Laurel last minute (on Wednesday when we were leaving Thursday morning) that we should Couch Surf in Abidjan and not stay in a hotel. Couch surfing, for those who are unfamiliar, is a social network for travelers, who are looking for a cheap place to stay. Basically, people sign up on this website advertising that they have a couch that is available for crashing. It’s a great concept, and in a country where you don’t speak the language and is infamously corrupt, I thought it would be a good idea for us. Luckily, as we were leaving campus we get a phone call from this Abidjan local, Regina. She has room for 2 and would be happy to house us! Perfect! How exciting! She is fluent in both French and English, and will be an asset to our journey.
We start our long journey to Abidjan which takes roughly 12 hours, and that’s assuming everything goes smoothly… The first 5 hour tro-tro ride goes well and we then transfer to a shared taxi to get us to the border. All 4 seats are taken in the small taxi when the driver pulls over, appearing to be picking up more people.
“What? Where are they going to sit?” I think to myself. Of course, how naïve of me-- One man squeezes in the back with me and Laurel so there are now 4 in the back, and 3 people and a live chicken in the front passenger seat. So we have 8 people in this small taxi and a chicken in a black plastic bag acting as a surrogate carrier. Wow, how I love Africa.
After many hours we finally cross the border, and what a difference in culture. 100 yards on the other side of this arbitrary political boundary, and you’re in a whole different world: different language, food, currency, everything. Laurel and I wanted to buy water off the top of some girl’s head, and we had no idea how to communicate that or how much it was. We were so dehydrated and distressed from everything around us: people asking us where we’re going, how do we want to get there, do I want to buy bread, or some bootleg DVDs? And all this was communicated in French and broken English, so it just felt like people yelling nonsense at us.
Laurel and I finally got into a shared car going to Abidjan. She and I shared the passenger seat… for 5 hours! Never would I be OK doing that in a car from LA to Berkeley, but here it’s more like, “Only TWO to the passenger seat? Great! Should be a (relatively) comfortable ride!” However, it was hot and sticky to say the least. On our ride from the border to the city, we were constantly stopped by the police requesting to see our papers. Not everyone else’s, just ours. The police didn’t care that the car was overloaded, not at all. They just cared that we had our papers. I felt bad for everyone sharing the car with us because we were obviously the reason for being stopped at EVERY checkpoint. No one really spoke English. The officers knew basic interrogative questions, “Where are you going, Where do you come from, Where are you staying?” but other than that, nothing. I started to feel that this was going to be a loooong weekend…
We finally make it to Abidjan, where Regina meets us at the station. The first thing we do? Go back to her room and take a relaxing bucket shower! We were so disgusting from the journey. We then meet up with her friend to get some authentic Ivorian street food. It is SO much better than Ghanaian food! It reminded me of Ethiopian cuisine except that instead of the sourdough crepe, you eat the main course with another carb that resembles cous cous, but is sticky enough so you can mold it into a ball and then take your bite. Delicious! Oh yeah, and there was real ice cream for dessert! Remember, Ghana doesn’t do dairy, or dessert, so to have real ice cream was an extra treat.
6.30am the next morning- “Alright guys wake up! We have to go to the market. Take your bucket showers, let’s go!”
“Regina. What time is it?! Ughhh we’re still so tired.”
“It’s late. Get up. We have much to do!”
Resentfully, we get up, as we do not want to upset our host. First things first. We have to get butane for the portable cooker because Regina ran out. Alright no big deal. WRONG. We walk around carrying her empty gas tank looking for butane, but everyone has run out. We take a cab to the next nearest option. They’re out as well. We tried about 6 places before we gave up and called her friend who had a moto, to go searching for us. The whole neighborhood was out of butane! What are the chances?
Next stop. The market. I am used to African markets at this point, but I suppose when it’s African AND in French, I get overwhelmed just like it’s my first time all over again! Regina is bargaining the prices of potatoes and onions with some vendor, while Laurel and I are just standing there, not understanding a word, and having people rush by us in the tight space that we are standing.
“Pardon, Pardon” I hear from behind me. A man hurriedly passes us, carrying a cow’s head on his shoulder, sinews and all. I move without hesitation.
“Pardon, Pardon” I hear 20 seconds later. A man squeezes passed us with a wheelbarrow containing another cow’s head. Eyes open, fluids leaking. Love it! Walking around the market, which is crowded with people buying, selling, haggling, shopping, for 2 hours killed me and Laurel. We weren’t even doing any of the bargaining, but just being in that crazy atmosphere, dodging cows’ heads, and maneuvering in tight spaces with so many people drains you!
Afterwards we went to her parents’ house, where we had lunch. We shared a plate with her brothers and sisters of typical Ivorian cuisine, ie. We all used our hands to eat off the communal plate. It felt really special being invited into their home and sharing food with the family!
Later we walk around the business district for some time before we’re too tired to care anymore. What an exhausting day! We go home, take our bucket showers and then start preparing dinner. There are 2 knives for the 3 of us, one portable burner on her balcony, and no running water, making the dinner preparation a very long process. In the end, we had a delicious Ivorian meal which we helped prepare. It was very rewarding!
The next morning (Easter Sunday), we’re actually allowed to sleep in passed 10. Thanks Regina! But the lights were out in her bathroom, and there are no windows so I had to (bucket) shower by the light of mine and Laurel’s phone! My favorite part? I love not being able to see all the roaches that I’m showering with. Ok, it was only two this time, so an improvement I suppose!
We spend the day at the beach and on our way home stop by the Catholic Church because the priest has prepared an Easter feast for us (it‘s because we‘re white and foreign)! But Laurel and I don’t eat meat, and we had just bought all the ingredients for dinner, so we had to decline the food offer, but we did take them up on their drink offer! We go home and prepare dinner, and at this point Laurel and I have the hang of what to do, and how to prepare it, and how to be efficient with only 2 knives and 1 burner. I’m in charge of grating the hot pepper (my first time!) and I think to myself, “I know there are some hot peppers that you need gloves to prepare, good thing these aren’t them!” Well, I guess my hands are extra sensitive because my hands starting BURNING. You know the feeling when you eat something REALLY spicy and your lips are on fire? Yeah, imagine that, but on both of your hands. I couldn’t pick anything up, because my hands would burn more, I couldn’t stop shaking my hands because the breeze relieved the heat. I iced my hands, hoping to numb the pain. Nothing. Regina took the dish sponge and VIGOROUSLY scrubbed my skin in hopes and removing the acid. Nothing. I dipped my hands in salt and put them in front of a fan. Nothing. I took a shower. Nothing. I couldn’t even eat, because I was in too much pain, and we had spent so much time preparing and it was so good! After 3 hours of incessant burning, I decided to go to bed, leaning off the side so I could fall asleep with my hands submerged in cold water. Haha I woke up and my hands no longer burned! I slept the pain away, but wow was that painful.
We leave the next morning, ready for the 12 hour journey ahead of us, hoping it will be more comfortable than when we came.
When leaving, we really appreciated that we had met Regina, for she ultimately kept us safe and showed us what it’s like to live as an Ivorian. There were language barriers at times and cultural differences that we had to overcome, but Regina’s intentions were always genuine (despite being sometimes overbearing!). I’m not sure if we would have left our hotel room if we stayed in one, because neither of us speak French (making it SO difficult in Cote d’Ivoire to do anything), and it is generally unsafe (something we were definitely aware of, but still a little naïve of HOW unsafe until we arrived). Regina made it possible for us to get the whole Ivorian experience, so thank you Regina!
Laurel and I were so happy to be going back to Ghana. By leaving the country, we realized how comfortable and settled we are with the culture and the country. We know how much things should cost so we don’t get ripped off, we know how to get home and we’re able to communicate it by common language, and we know how to interact with Ghanaians. It was a relief to be back on the other side of the border, for we felt like we had made it home. And I realized something from my travels to Cote d’Ivoire; I don’t just study in Ghana, but I LIVE in Ghana, and I love it.
Be in touch soon!
Annabelle
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Thursday, March 18, 2010
Legacy of Colonialism-- Intriguing for a History Major!
*This is a long entry, I know. So skim it and read the parts that appeal to you! Just my thoughts/ observations, take them as you will!*
Why did I choose to come to Ghana? I wanted something different. I had been to Europe and I’m there relatively often, and the next continent of interest to me was Africa. Why? I don’t know. I think there is so much unwarranted mystery about this continent, so many misconceptions, and negative images, but what about the positive? What is the reality of this continent? I didn’t know, so I thought the only to find out would be to live here for myself and form my own conceptions. Africa can’t just be dictators, civil unrest, coup d’etats, poverty, and AIDS; there had to be more to this continent and I wanted to experience it first hand.
What is Ghana? How do I describe it to you? It’s fast paced, yet ridiculously slow and relaxed, it’s gorgeously rich with vegetation, yet disgustingly smoggy and industrial, it’s frustrating and tedious, but it is sometimes what frustrates you one day that you love the next; it’s a love/ hate relationship, but one that you find you can’t get enough of.
I’ve never been to a country that has a history of being colonized; I’ve only visited the colonizers-- England, Spain, France, Italy, and Portugal. When you visit these passed dominant powers, you forget that colonization was a part of their past, until you stumble upon all the foreign spoils in their renowned museums.
Being in Ghana, the legacy of colonization is always around you: Christianity, style of clothing, the English language, architecture, slave forts, and silverware, things that are everyday in our lives because of our distant connection with Britain, but were forced upon Africans relatively recently. Colonizers came late in African history, after cultures were settled and after they had established a way of living. (This is obviously unlike when the British came to the US, for they slaughtered all the natives, took their land, and established a new country.)
So how do all the things I mentioned above play out in Ghana (whose boundaries were also determined by the British)? I’ll start by explaining the most prominent-- Christianity.
I’ve been to the Vatican, Italy, Spain, and France to name a few relatively religious countries, but never have I felt so inundated with religiosity (unless I’m hiding from Jehovah’s witnesses proselytizing at my door!). Ghanaians are more openly pious than any other culture I’ve encountered, especially the British, who are the ones who brought it to them! To give you a feel of what I mean, this is how most first encounters go with the random Ghanaians I meet:
*Sample Dialogue*
(Let‘s name my sample person Emmanuel, considering 50% of all men I meet are named this)
Emmanuel- (Starts w the basic questions) “Hello, how are you? Where are you from? What’s your name?”
And I answer.
Then with no haste they ask “Do you go to Church, Annabelle?”
Me- “No I don’t.”
Them- (They gasp, either to themselves or explicitly) “What! But will you go to Church with me? I want to get to know you.”
Me- “I used to go to Church, but I don’t need to go anymore, but thank you!”
And then from there it differs with each person. I’ve had one guy say that he can’t be friends with me actually because I won’t go to Church. And then I have had many offers to teach me religion with hopes of “showing me the light,” and then I’ve had others just drop it and keep talking to me because they realize religion is their thing and not necessarily mine. So it’s been interesting, the whole religion thing here. It’s just, EVERYTHING and (I don’t want to exaggerate, but) EVERYONE is religious here. Like even the random booths on the street, and the tro-tros have religious references.
For example, where I get my market food is called “God Is Able,” but others include, “God‘s Time is the Best,” or “By God‘s Grace,” but my favorite is “The Lord is My Strengt (the ‘H’ was missing!). So the names of stores, if you can call them that, alright, shacks that serve food or other goods, 95% of them have religious titles which are more like religious declarations. It’s cool with me! I just don’t want to pray with you or go to Church. My point is, Ghana is religious. Religion is everywhere: in casual conversation, quotes on the backs of taxis or tro-tros, the names of public services, people’s names, etc. At this point we all just look for the most entertaining names and titles that we run into in our travels (like the “strengt” one!). One thing is for sure, they always make us smile.
Clothing and the English language- Both effects of colonization and it is so apparent. There is this constant struggle between tradition and modernity here, and it can be seen in the clothing styles and language here in Ghana.
Unlike when the British came to the US and obliterated native culture, they had a more tolerable approach with Africans (to an extent). Children were taken from their homes and sent to missionary schools where they were educated, taught English, and learned how to use silverware, ie. They were “civilized.” But not all were sent and a lot kept with their traditions, but with the addition of Christianity. So they had their tribal languages, depending on their region it could be Ewe, Fante, Ga, or the most prevalent, Twi (spoken in the capital), and they had their traditional wear, for women, long dresses with colorful prints, and for men, draping more conservative prints toga style.
The languages are still widely spoken, in fact, regional languages are most Ghanaians FIRST language. I’d estimate that for 90% of Ghanaians, English is their second language, and this throws me off considering all official, governmental, and business matters are conducted in English. So I came here assuming it’ll be so easy to get around because English is the national language-- WRONG! The accents are hard to discern, and they definitely have an equally hard time understanding me. I think I speak very clearly, but there is seriously a language barrier, and an English one at that! And you’d think I’d be so good with deciphering variations of English pronunciations with being British, and just living in America-- yeah, wrong AGAIN! It’s been surprisingly difficult to get what I ask for, for people don’t understand, yet we are both apparently speaking the same language. They agree and nod like they know exactly what you’re saying and that they understand no problem. Well then why am I repeating myself 10 mins later when something has gone wrong, or just never happened to begin with? Haha I don’t know, but we all just deal with it, assume something will not go as we asked, and that way if something does go right, we can only be pleasantly surprised, right?! I just try not to complicate things that’s all. Keep it simple and hopefully it will turn out as you asked!
Back to clothing-- Women are more traditional in clothing than men. The only place I’ve seen men in draped fabric have been in smaller villages. Men in the cities mostly all wear business clothes, or dress pants with a nice African print button-down for flavor. Women here though are more conservative and traditional, so it is common that I see women (though mostly older) wearing their long dresses/ skirts, and their hair wrapped in the same/ matching fabric. It looks so put together and classy!
So I will end with an anecdote which sort sums up this whole tradition vs. modernity aspect of Ghanaian culture:
Stacy made friends with the cafeteria lady in her dorm. She is 25 and makes 1.50 Cedi a day, roughly $1 a day, but that is relatively good pay by Ghana standards. So her friend invited Stacy to a wedding and made her food and introduced her to her whole family, and is just really nice to Stacy (plus she hooks it up in the cafeteria haha). So Stacy, to show her gratitude, decided to take her out for dinner in the city; they had Chinese food, which was her friend’s first time (which was surprising to me as that is the most prominent ethnic cuisine they have here), and it was her friend’s first time using a knife! Stacy had to teach her how to use it, which her friend found amusing apparently! Dinner cost about 3 weeks pay at the rate her friend is paid (don’t worry! Stacy paid the bill!). But this story made me think-- This friend hadn’t had any food in her life that wasn’t Ghanaian, which made sense as to why she had never used a knife before. Ghanaians eat with their hands, and only sometimes require the help of a spoon or a fork, but never a knife. Why? There is nothing to cut in Ghanaian cuisine. All the meat is on the bone, so you just go for it, only hands and teeth required. All the sides (rice, beans, spaghetti) can be eaten with a fork. I personally haven’t used a knife since I’ve been here! Her friend is entrenched in tradition with the way she lives her life, and her experience at the Chinese restaurant is a taste of modernity, just by default that she ventured out of her immediate comfort zone and tried something UNtraditional.
I’m telling you, Ghana is an interesting place! This whole “being run by the British for over a century” thing has really had a lasting effect on the culture in ways that are sometimes so blatant, but are also latent within the culture; and it is the latter that I find most intriguing.
I would love your feedback! Thoughts/ questions? Email me!
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Take care,
Annabelle
Friday, February 26, 2010
All Better and Ready to Get Going!
There are two cliché sayings that have become themes in my life since I’ve been here: “Absence makes the heart grow fonder,” and “you don’t realize what you have until it’s gone.” But it is the latter that has most recently slapped me in the face. True, pretty much immediately once I arrived in Ghana, I realized the advantages I have living in the US, and I commented on them in my initial two entries. But my commentary concentrated mostly on modern conveniences and cultural differences-- things that I am quite capable of not having while I’m here, but will be so much more thankful for once I get back to The States: decent internet, dairy products, heated water, and a constant flow of water and power. But there is one thing that I realized that I can actually not live without and all my life I have taken it for granted-- my health.
What a difference having your health makes to, well, your life! I’m not going to be a drama queen/ silly American and say I had this epiphany while lying on my death bed in Africa, but I definitely had this realization in my two weeks of lying in bed haha!
When I last posted, it had been 6 days since I fell ill. It is now day 14 and I am FINALLY able to get out of bed without any hesitation, because I now have the strength. Since we last spoke, or more accurately, I spoke and you read, I have had a rough time dealing with my tropical ailment. Although malaria was never confirmed by my blood sample, the doctors are still convinced that I had malaria, for the symptoms that I had, and that my platelet count was unusually low, an effect of malaria, but not exclusive to the parasite. And, the parasite apparently goes in and out of your blood, so at the time of my sample, the parasite could have been chilling in my liver or something. Great, right?
What do I think? Well, I didn’t ever think that I had malaria until about day 12; therefore, I will refer to my tropical ailment as malaria, because I now believe that is what it was. What swayed me? Let me explain in a nutshell…
I was put on this 6 day 3 times a day pill to treat the malaria, and it made me feel horrible. I mean, I didn’t feel like I was getting any better and the days were coming and going with minimal improvement. I wasn’t eating (loss of appetite was a side effect of the pills), I was nauseous constantly which made eating the last thing I wanted to do (also a wicked side effect of the drug), and when I was able to eat, I was vomiting it up either immediately after, or even up to 7 hours later! (again, another perquisite of the drug). So eating was beyond a chore, I could even say painful. I’m eating about 500 calories a day then subsequently losing close to 200 of them. And it’s been like this for a week at this point, so I’m just trying not to wither away. My energy is low, strength is dwindling each day. It got to the point where showering was a feat of its own. Oh yeah, we also didn’t have water and power for 48 hours, so if normal showering wasn’t hard enough for me, bucket showers were extra enticing and enjoyable!
Ok, but I’m not writing this for the sympathy card, or even to bitch and complain and try to prove “how hard my life was,” but it was unfortunate to say the least haha, and that’s really my point.
So on Wednesday I went back to the hospital because you know what? I was still shitty and it had been 10 days. I still wasn’t convinced this was malaria because the medicine I felt was harming more than helping me. After more lab work from more samples taken from me, and 6 hours of waiting, it was decided that my current ill state, was still due to the malaria meds (which I ended 2 days ago, but apparently are still active in my body and still affecting me). So I was given anti-vomiting meds to help keep down the food, and told that I’ll be better in 3-4 days time. Well, despite my skepticism at the time (which I openly voiced to the doctor, might I add! haha jeez I’m so American), I felt better even 2 days after and hadn’t vomited since I left the hospital (for the third time in 10 days). It is at this point that I began to believe that maybe it was malaria; I was definitely feeling better, I was holding down my food, consequently finally feeling A BIT stronger, and this is what the doctor said would happen once the malaria meds subsided. I did have a reaction to the malaria meds, but after they had done their job, and the (painfully tedious) treatment was over, I was cured!
It is day 14 since I fell ill, and although I have not tested my energy/ strength by doing the 20 minute walk to campus in 85 degree heat, I feel like a person again. I want to eat and I like eating. I mean, I went so long without it, I missed it haha! I haven’t touched Ghanaian food yet though. I’m still sick of that! But I went to the supermarket in the city and bought snack foods I’m familiar with. Honestly, I might not be the healthiest person right now, but I’m eating foods that I WANT to eat, and that will STAY down. This is the priority at this point. Nutrition can come later haha.
This is the view from my shower at Green Turtle at sunset. They have gorgeous outdoor showers!
Today was the first time in 2 weeks that I even attempted going to class, and it was a great success! I feel great. Thus far, my professors have been pretty forgiving about me missing 2 weeks of lecture due to malaria.
At this point, however, I yearn to be out of my bed (which if you know me well, I would NEVER say back home!) But there is so much to do here, and time is seriously running out! I have 6 weeks left of classes, then finals, and then I’m leaving Ghana to backpack for 6 weeks! I’ve lost two weekends, and there is no time to waste!
But before I go, let me close with this-- For everyone reading, thank you again for the love and support. I’ve received a lot of surprising get well messages and best wishes from people, which really were heart warming (cliché, but true!) while I was in my lowest point. Thank you again, and really, it means so much!
Also, if you have any questions/ things you want me to touch upon in my next blog, email me! Abellesib@berkeley.edu
Oh, and if you would like me to email you every time I update, email me and let me know!
I am better and ready to get going!
Love to you all,
Stay well, and care for your health!
-Annabelle